Friday, May 28, 2010

♥ Friends ♥

Friends stay together
through good and through bad
Friends stay together
through happy and sad
Friends stay together
through break-ups and tears
Friends stay together
over the years
Friends stay together
when different or alike
Friends stay together
through pain and through strife
Friends stay together
no matter the cause
Friends stay together
just because
Friends stay together
through love and through hate
Friends stay together
through destiny and fate
Friends stay together
they're just always there
Friends stay together
because they care♥

What A Guy Wants

A guy wants the type of girl
That doesn't mind staying home
A guy wants a girl
He can call his own

He doesn't want a girl
Who will cheat
He doesn't want a girl
Who is cheap

He wants a girl
Who will be his best friend
He wants a girl
Who will love him to the very end

He wants a girl
Who he can depend on
He wants a girl
Who will tell him when he's wrong

A guy wants a girl
Who will never lie
Even if it means
One ends up crying

What a guy wants in a girl
Is passion and trust
But most of all
A guy wants to love and not to lust

A Girl Like Me

A girl like me will make your world better
A girl like me will make you happy
A girl like me will make you smile everyday.

A girl like me will surround only you in my world
A girl like me will make you laugh nonstop
A girl like me will make time for you.

A girl like me will sit and listen to your words
A girl like me will not play games with you or your heart
A girl like me will always be true to you.

A girl like me will talk to you all night
A girl like me will be the one you can count on to be there for you
A girl like me will always be down for you no matter what.

A girl like me will be the one you can put your trust in
A girl like me will make you my whole world
A girl like me will give you everything I possibly can.

A girl like me needs a king
A girl like me could be your queen
A girl like me could be your everything.

A girl like me will let you have fun
A girl like me will lay with you and just smile
A girl like me will be the one you can just hang out with.

A girl like me will be the one to hold you at night
A girl like me will be the one you can fall asleep with
A girl like me will make you see what's on the brighter side.

A girl like me will keep you outta trouble
A girl like me will be there when no one else will
A girl like me will be the one you can open up to.

A girl like me could be your world that you have been looking for
A girl like me could be right in front of you
A girl like me could be the one you need to survive this life.

A girl like me is me
There is no other girl like me
Take me to be yours and get all of the above.

'DEPRESSION Makes me.......'

Depression makes me feel pain
Depression makes me stupid
Depression makes me feel low
Depression makes me mad
Depression makes me sad
Depression makes me forget world
Depression makes me tensed
Depression makes me lose self control
Depression makes me hate everyone
Depression makes me think over and over
Depression makes me feel lonely
Depression makes me think wild
Depression makes me worthless
Depression makes me sick
What does Depression give me?
When it runs high…
It will make me Die - REST IN PEACE…

Take It Easy! ! ! !

Love and lust,
What you’ll vote?
I vote for love,
Lust I got.
I vote for lust,
Love I got.
Love is Love
And Lust is lust……
In the puzzlement
Lust and love I voted for both,
And I was disqualified!
I stopped voting now!
I take things as it comes!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Courage

Courage is what makes us
Courage is what divides us
Courage is what drives us
Courage is what stops us

Courage creates news
Courage demands more
Courage creates blame
Courage brings shame

Courage shows in school
Courage determines the cool
Courage divides the weak
Courage pours out like a leak

Courage puts us on a knee
Courage makes us free
Courage makes us plea
Courage helps us flee

Time

There's a time to love
And a time to hate
There's a time to go
And a time to wait

There's a time to follow
And a time to lead
There's a time to heal
And a time to bleed

There's a time to smile
And a time to frown
There's a time to build
And a time to tear down

There's a time to give
And a time to receive
There's a time to question
And a time to believe

There’s a time to stand
And a time to leap
There’s a time to plant
And a time to reap

There's a time to win
And a time to lose
There's a time to fear
And a time to choose

There's a time to land
And a time to fly
There's a time to live
And a time to die

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Should we be Friends OR Lovers.

Are you ready for commitment?
This is the most important question you need to ask yourself. As friends you lead a carefree life and friendship doesn't involve responsibilities, expectations and commitments. If these added responsibilities and expectations are causing problems and apparently you spend more time arguing and fighting than loving, then its better you stick to being friends.

Your goals are completely different.
If you are ambitious and want to achieve a certain goal in your life but your partner is not then this might create lots of problems in your relationship which might lead to bitterness and despair. If that's a case in between you and your partner then its best if you go back to the friendship stage and remain friends forever.

Your moral values are different.
For a relationship to be successful it is very necessary that that you both have similar moral values. It is okay if your views, interests and hobbies are different and infact different points of view are often healthy for a relationship. However if your moral values are different then the differences as a result of that becomes a little too difficult to bridge.

Are you over-possessive?
If you are suffering from the syndrome called jealousy and over-possessiveness then it is advisable that you remain just friends. There are some women who become so possessive about their friends or partner that they cant tolerate him speaking to anybody. Also if you feel that your partner is jealous and possessive then its better that you don't indulge into a serious relationship with him to repent it later on.

Your relationship is purely sexual.
While sex is an essential and integral part of any relationship, a relationship built solely on sex is probably not going to last. Thus if you think that all that you do when you meet is indulge in sex then its better that you remain friends and not lovers.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

My Princess ( His Story )

this is how the story goes...

well...this story is about a girl...
she's not an ordinary girl, she's my princess
ok well...this girl has got something really special in her...i have no idea what is it but that is what attracted me to her
ok...let me describe her in details..
she's 19 years old going on 20 this year...abt 5feet tall i guess(not sure)
not very thin and not very fat....she has a perfect body which every guys can get attracted to..
ok...let me start from her head right to her legs...
well...
she has syuperbly-well made or crafted face
her eyes, her nose, her ears, her pink lips and her eyebrows
everything really fits in perfectly
that makes a very beautiful and cute face
with that she has been embedded with beautiful and long hair
(so many times in my dreams i dreamt abt her hair)
so freaking nice.
you know she has this cute smile...
god...every time she smiles, it makes me go crazy
everything inside of me leaps with so much of joy
to conclude, she has a perfect face. cannot be compared to any other..
she's just unique...such a beautiful girl
ok now...to her body...
she has the most 'perfect-est' body of all the girls i've met
she has got the curve that makes most of the guys go CRAZEEEEEEEE !
well...i dont want to go very deep in details
for your own info...she's mine..
so i keep it all to myself...not telling anyone
hahaha
in conclusion...she has a well-curved and a sexy body....
any guy would want to have a girl like her...
but im just a lucky bastard...I GOT HER !!
hahaha
:D
well...im gonna jump straight to her legs now...
not gonna reveal abt anything in between her legs and body
(total privacy)
hahaha
ok well...
i havent really seen her legs before...
i mean in real life
but i did see her legs in one of her pics...and i have to say...
i was AMAZED at it !
it looked in the picture, she has a pretty legs..
it looked smooth...and her skin tone was awesome
it was really really so white
haha
i know some friends of mine...who admire a girl
*girl's legs
so...im sure if they were to see my princess's legs...hahaha
they will shower me with praises
haha
well...according to some people...if a girl has pretty legs...then..
she's surely one 'HOT CHICK'
so im glad that i've won the heart of a 'HOT CHICK'
:D:D:P
ok...lets continue..
nothing else to say la ...
lol
hmmm...
ok ok
from the legs...
i can say abt her feet...but i've never seen them...
so i dont really know la
so...thats it..
the conclusion...
my girlfriend is a hot chick !!!
:P:P
im lucky to have her...
ok...that was abt her physically..
now...characteristically...
she's such a sweetheart i tell you
she's the most amazing human i've ever met...
my life took a drastic change from the moment she stepped into my life
she brought so much of happiness
i cant even go on a day without talking to her...she has become that important to me
evryday im loving her more and more
you know...there's one thing abt her that i admire...
whenever she gets angry, irritated or depressed...
she loses control of her mind and herself
she'll say stuffs which are not supposed to be said
but she just wont care
I LOVE THIS THING ABT HER !
ermm...might sound stupid...but i really find it very sexy
hahaha
not all the girls can be like her
she's just so special
sometimes she can be very very childish...
but still i LOVE it !
i might get irritated sometimes...but deep inside im loving it
i love seeing her face when she's angry...
all of a sudden, she becomes so beautiful !
erm...there;s alot of things to say abt her la...
but i choose not to say coz its private
so yeah...
TOTAL CONCLUSION :
My girlfriend is a hot chick. She's a sweetheart, a good person. So loving and cares for me alot. And also, she's a clown. My baby pig !! I love this pig so much !

THE END

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Parents VS Teenagers

( this is my real life story, not created..... because im lost and i just do not knw what to do but to write them down instead...no one will understand hw i feel and what im going thru until and unless u step in my shoes!!! )

The question

The primary job as parents is to keep their youngsters safe. Are they permitted to “snoop” on them in order to protect them from harm? Should parents read their teens diaries, listen to their phone conversations, and check their email log and stalk on their facebook?

The Court Case

Before this questions can be answered, parents should be aware of their legal rights. Dear parents, ur not dealing with kids but ur dealing with teenagers!!

Parent : Will we get into trouble for performing our parental duty?

the teenager would answer, well, it depends on how u handle ur parental duty.

Parent : Are there limits to our parental prerogative?

The teenager would answer, is that even a question, lol !!

The Debate

Situation : My daughter doesn’t talk to me. If I ask her about her school, she says ‘its fine’. She is very irritable , she spends most of her time in her room, listening to songs, hanging on the internet, and most of the time on the phone. She does not respond properly when I ask her certain questions and sometimes she acts in a very strange way. But im happy, she still stays at home.

Parents are in agony when left in the dark about a teens activities. Who knows what she is doing! Is she involved with the “wrong” type of peer group? Is she hurting herself by engaging in behavior that is dangerous, either physically or emotionally, or illegal? What is a parent to do?

On the one hand, maybe we should just control our anxious thoughts and feelings. After all, we parents recognize our teenagers’ desire for privacy. They need time to be alone, space for their possessions, and the knowledge that we won’t pry into their lives. We want to have a relationship of trust and respect with them. We also want them to become increasingly independent so that they may be prepared for adulthood. If we control their lives too much we might impair their decision-making ability and hinder them from attaining the self-confidence to make the important decisions that lie ahead.

The key problem

She is in a relationship with this guy. She sees future with him. Parents are obviously against it. That’s when, hell starts!

The reality

In my case, my parents snoop over me all the time.. I’m a teen , 19 going on 20. Yet, they control my life to the max. I had no privacy at all till I had to hv double security code in my phone, my diary had to be thrown, my messages must be kept locked in a private folder. What makes it even worse, my phone has to be in my pocket 24/7. I just cant seem to be open to my parents. Gap has been created. Now, whats the solution??

My mother shouts at me all the time. She doesn’t understand how I feel. She misunderstands me all the time, she controls my life like no other. She’s allergic to see guys around me. Now, she has instill a fear in me which is hard to describe. On the other hand, I hv a dad who listens to my mom a million percent. No doubt, he is not strict at all..but somehow I cannot reach him as well… What should I do?

The Expected Convo

The girl : dad, we need to talk.

Dad : yes girl, what is it?

The girl : well dad, I hv something on my mind that is bothering me. I cant eat, I cant sleep, I cant study, I just cant do anything but to feel depressed.

Dad : ok, what is it? Tell me whats ur prob.

The girl : ok. Im in a relationship with this guy whom I love.

Dad : so, what are u trying to say now?

The girl : im trying to say that I want some space .. to spend time with him when im back.

Mom interrupts

Mom : Is it very important for u to be in a relationship right now? Cant u get ur priorities right? Why are my girls always so interested in getting into a relationship. Guys are just making use of u’ll and u girls are being so stupid and cheap!!

The girl : is falling in love a crime?

Dad & mom : ur being very disobedient. U are not honouring ur parents. Ur going against ur parents and this is not the way u shud talk to ur parents.

The girl : but the guy is a Christian, a good guy, a future pilot, and his family has accepted me. Why cant u’ll accept him?

Dad : well, u tell me ..who doesn’t want their daughter-in-law to be a future doctor?

The girl : that’s not the point here.

Dad : then wats the point?

The girl : why are u not approving of my relationship.

Dad : Because at the moment, its not important. Just look at the louis’s children.

The girl : *what the fuck face*

Dad : that’s why I say u’ll are being very disobedient to ur parents.

The girl : *loses her temper* and says…well, now u knw, why we cant be open to u’ll..

Dad : U shud knw hw to set ur priorities right.

The girl : I knw hw to set my priorities right. U just don’t understand hw I feel.

Dad : same goes here…

Th girl : i am tryin to put forth my problems and not hide anything from u.. in return, this is what i get. nw u knw, why we hide stuffs from both u and mummy.

(Conversation goes no where.. it ends up with arguments and its left abruptly….)

The conclusion

Dear teens, if u are facing the exact same thing im feeling…then its high time we teens rebel.. this is to teach our parents a lesson and see hw they react to it.. because of my parents over protection, im going thru a lot of depression and heartaches. So yeah, this is not the life I want to live. Live is short. We should be happy and live life to the fullest.

Dear parents, please don’t be too over protective over ur teens… For gods sake, they are no longer babes.. they hv grown up and they know wat is right for them. If u support them, they will turn to u no matter what happens, even in their darkest hour. They would be open to u and there will not be a generation gap. And most of all, they would not go on lying to u!!!

ATTITUDE !!

Attitude is more important than facts
It is more important than the past, than education than money, than circumstances, than failures, than success.
than wat other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill.
It will make or break a company, a home and even a relationship.
The remarkable thing is we hv a choice , everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace or the other day.
We cannot change our past,
We cannot change the fact that other people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the string we hv, and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and the remaining 90% is how i react to it.


Saturday, May 8, 2010

MUMMY

My mother is unique
My mother is one of a kind
She is sweet and
she loves me like no other,
She is gentle and kind
She is there when i need her...

My mother is beautiful
my dad is lucky he got her...
My mother is smart and
she's good at words..

Mummy, i love you for all that u hv done for me
u cared for me like no other...
and the sacrifices u made for me..
i appreciate it from the bottom of my heart.

Though my mother can be mad at times,
i wud still love her.
though she can be annoying at times,
i wud still love her.
though she can get on my nerves at times,
i wud still love her.

My mother is a special gift.
a gift from God.
i wud be lost and lonely without her.
Thank you God,
for giving me such a wonderful mother.

Dear Mummy,
although im not here with you 2day to celebrate mothers day with you,
im nt there to buy u flowers...
but i wud still celebrate mothers day with you from afar...
u are always in my heart...
Mummy, i love you..





sincerely written by a wonderful daughter,
Jessica

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Fights !

Why do couples fight so much over stupid, lame things?

Well, lately i hv been experiencing too much of fights in my relationship. Almost every alternate days, we wud hv a fight. Fights are usually about something much deeper then what it may seem. It can range from either misunderstanding, miscommunication, immaturity level, either one being inconsiderate or insecure of the other. As for me, i find it rather strange and weird why two people who is so in love still fight all the time, hurt each other, etc etc... it doesnt make any sense to me but it does happen all the time in my relationship

someone actually asked this ques : why do couples fight all the time? and the answer given was, " Because they have a dead relationship that is going nowhere, the love is gone, so might as well fight like crazy." but this doesnt apply to me and my relationship. because in my relationship, the love grows instead, then why fight.. ???

You know, i hv been arguing alot lately with my boyfriend over stupid little things. Its a shame to knw that we both love each other, yet fight all the time. I just cant figure out why we're arguing about stupid, lame stuffs. I just need a solution to overcome this. someone help. i need answers...

My boyfriend feels so insecure about me. and i just dont knw why. as far as im concern. i've done nothing in the world to instill such a feeling within him. he is just so allergic to see guys around me. as if, they gonna steal me away from him. tat aint gonna happen in a million years.. i need to eradicate this feeling away from me... can someone tell me how, what do i need to do.. i need logic, rational answers...

although we fight, hurt each other like anything...but deep inside me, i love him more then anything.. he is the one for me, my prince. just cant imagine what life would be without him. no prince=no life !! and therefore, i would sacrifice anything in the world in order to keep this relationship going...